Just Don't Push Them Away

When things go badly wrong, or when we think we are in our worst self, we tend to push away the people that dearly love us, thinking that it is the way to save them from the misery and problems that we have. But is it really what we want to do? Is it the best way? Is it right in the first place?

Why do we think that it is saving them from misery? Are we in the best position to say that they are better off without us? Don't we consider what they think, what they prefer to do?

In our darkest moments, in our lowest points, only those who truly love us will stand by, for, and with us. If they want to stick in our lives, who are we push to them away? Are we not being arrogant?

We need love in this life. We need not all, but few people who are willing to stay no matter what, despite all the problems and adversities. But staying means being wanted to stay. A simple admission that we want them to stay, and that they are appreciated, will do. We don't need to give so much time, so much effort, so much money. Just don't push them away and they will stay.

If they truly love us, they will really stay. But again, just don't push them away but rather thank them for the love and company. They are the treasures in this life that we can keep for life. It's hard to lose such treasures.

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The New Chapter

The whole summer I have been so confused on what career path to take. Because of this, lots of problems branched out. Relationships were tested. I battled with myself.

Now, when so much had happened, I am stronger. I am very happy of where I am now. Being a faculty member of the division I love so much, there is so much fulfillment.

Also, I have learned to be more understanding and more open to the possibilities. To be patient and to trust for the perfect time are the two things that I am proud to have learned.

Many things are still about to happen. I may not be always in my best self to face them but I know I am stronger now. :)

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Until it Happens

At this modern day, it is so hard to believe into something until it actually happens.

Probably because of the hurt of broken promises that we actually become scared of believing that they do come true; that we sometimes feel that being too hopeful would just lead to disappointment.

It may be hard to believe but that is what we have to do. We have to have faith and trust.

Things may not always happen as we expected. Promises may be broken at times.



But these should not hinder us from believing and hoping that promises may still come true; and that our dreams may still happen.

We have to continue to hope and believe yet not expect too much.

When things happen as we hoped to be, let’s rejoice but if not, then believe there are better things to come or maybe it will just happen later.

I learned that optimism is really helpful and that it’s the better option.

Rough times are inevitable but we can do something on how we see and deal with things.

And it should be in the positive way.

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